Mistakes Christians make when dialoguing
with Atheists
Most Christians mean well when they defend their faith. But, too
often, many make fundamental errors when dialoguing with atheists.
We need to make as few errors as possible, not simply to win an argument,
but to help the atheist come to a saving relationship with the Lord Jesus.
Following are common mistakes made by theists when dialoguing with atheists.
- Labeling Atheists
- Some Christians have labeled atheists as stupid, devil-worshippers,
or morally void. Though there may be some atheists who fit these
categories (as would many in the general population), atheists are
not categorically stupid, devil-worshipping, degenerates with
no morals. Many of them are fine citizens, honest, caring, loving,
and patient. For a Christian, or anyone for that matter, to make
a blanket statement about atheists in a derogatory manner is wrong.
It is the same thing atheists sometimes do when they accuse Christians
of being irrational, psychotic, or stupid. Such accusations have
no place on either side of the argument of truth.
Generally speaking, atheists are not stupid. Many of them have thought through their position over a long period of time and arrive at conclusions after much thought. Some were raised in religious homes, have seen what religion has to offer, and have rejected it. Of course, I think that atheists have drawn incorrect conclusions about God, but it doesn't mean they are dumb. Some atheists have presented very cogent arguments against the existence of God, which need to be addressed.
So, just because someone believes in God and encounters someone who doesn't, that does not mean that either side is stupid. Labeling and name-calling have no place in the discussion.
- Some Christians have labeled atheists as stupid, devil-worshippers,
or morally void. Though there may be some atheists who fit these
categories (as would many in the general population), atheists are
not categorically stupid, devil-worshipping, degenerates with
no morals. Many of them are fine citizens, honest, caring, loving,
and patient. For a Christian, or anyone for that matter, to make
a blanket statement about atheists in a derogatory manner is wrong.
It is the same thing atheists sometimes do when they accuse Christians
of being irrational, psychotic, or stupid. Such accusations have
no place on either side of the argument of truth.
- Ignoring Atheists' Questions
- If you were standing on a railroad track and a train was heading your way, closing your eyes and ignoring the locomotive will not make it go away. If an atheist asks a question and you ignore it repeatedly, it would be fair for him to conclude you were incapable of answering the objection. Of course, this does not mean you have to always answer everything because dialogue flows both ways. But, it is important that you face issues. If you don't have an answer, admit it. That's okay. It doesn't mean you are wrong. It means you don't have an answer. Go study and get an answer and get back to him.
- Stating that Atheism is a religion
- Atheists will repeatedly tell you that they are not in a religion.
A religion almost always is defined to include belief in a deity
of some sort. Atheism is non-belief in a deity. It isn't necessarily
a "belief that there is no God," (though it can be)but is "not believing
either way."
To label an atheist as a religious person is to put up a roadblock to effective communication. It would be like someone saying to a Christian, "You believe in a mean, tyrannical being who likes to torture people." The Christian would simply roll his eyes and think that the person doesn't know what he's talking about. So, how much effective conversation could there be in either instance? Not much.
- Atheists will repeatedly tell you that they are not in a religion.
A religion almost always is defined to include belief in a deity
of some sort. Atheism is non-belief in a deity. It isn't necessarily
a "belief that there is no God," (though it can be)but is "not believing
either way."
- Stating unsupportable facts
- No one has all documentation for everything they say. It is not reasonable to require proof from an atheist on everything said. Nevertheless, if you are going to state a fact or two, it is good to have the documentation at the tip of your tongue -- at least occasionally, of have access to it. It adds to your credibility. Of course, you don't have to document everything, but if you have some illustrious fact to use, try and have it documented.
- Never admitting when you are wrong
- Pride is a harmful thing. It caused the fall. It ruins marriages. It leads to anger and self-righteousness. It has no place in the Christian's life. Never admitting you are wrong is being prideful. If an atheist, or anyone, proves you wrong is something, be kind and courteous. Admit you made a mistake and go on. Everyone makes mistakes, even atheists. There is nothing wrong with admitting an error. It no more proves you are wrong about Christianity than being wrong about the color of a boat means boats don't exist. But, if you never admit when you are wrong, you will not be able to convince anyone in a discussion of your position. You will simply lose the respect of the one with whom you are debating.
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